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Experiences and Examples
I’m going to go ahead and outline some of those experiences that I have had and give you some examples from others, and share with you some of the common aspects that, especially healers, deal with when they’re disowning different parts/aspects of their money shadows, and what to do about it.
My experience has been that I’ve been treading water to show up in a certain kind of way that could just be this loving, beautiful being and that people would just be wanting to work with me because I’m this nice guy healer.
I had people in my life that called me out on that and told me to cut it out, quit acting like the nice guy when it’s not about being the nice guy, it’s about being you.
That was really helpful for me. By being the nice guy, I wanted to give all my services away, and yet, there was this other aspect of myself that really wanted to get very pointed in feeling like I wanted to get aggressive in helping people to clear out their stuff to be able to move forward.
I needed to embrace that aspect.
Embracing the Shadowy Aspect
Even though I was concerned everyone would think I was way too aggressive. But once I had embraced that aspect, when it came to money too, to be able to own my value as a healer, and my visibility and all that sort of thing. The more and more I did that, that made all the difference.
Being willing to show up and do things like stronger marketing copy that really hits a visceral cord with people, or to stand in the power to call out things that need to be called out during even an initial session with someone off of an Energy Scan, to directly hit what needs to be hit so that people want to move forward and not to hesitate anymore. This is what makes all the difference.
What is it for you? For me, it was going to a place where I felt I was going to be overly aggressive with people, and yet, people still said I was a lovebug, a wonderful person. But yet, for me, it felt very aggressive.
What is it for you?
Realize that as you embrace your shadows, there will be the sense of judgment that will come up by a small minority of people and will probably be very universal. I did get some people along the way who thought I was being too salesy, or this or that. I just had to let go of it.
All of that whole concept, I came to understand that it had so much to do about them, of course, than it had to do about me.
How to Find Your Shadow
So what is it for you? It could be other things. It’s not always that it is these sorts of things like you’re not integrating the flow of your being, you’re not allowing the angelic self to lead and guide the way, you’re not trusting that aspect. You trust the aggressiveness and some other aspect of your being, but you’re not trusting the other aspects like what we call the light shadows.
All these things integrate into our being, into our life and how we’re able to manifest money or not manifest money. For me, I have to be on fire. I have to be the “heavy metal healer” in my own experience of it. That doesn’t mean that’s how other people experience me. But, I have to be that.
When I am that, then things powerfully move forward. That doesn’t mean that I’m not many other aspects. I am the wholeness that I see in the world. I am that centered, peaceful love as well, all of it. Embracing the heavy metal is much more challenging for me than it is other things.
I’d love to hear from you if you want to comment below. Let us know what’s going on with you, that would be awesome. That you need to integrate these shadows, otherwise it is energy that is not being channeled and utilized, and it creates havoc in your life, and guess what? It doesn’t allow you to bring forth the impact, and the expanded purpose that you’re here to do. It just can’t happen.
You have got to integrate these money shadows to be able to get the energy on board so that things want to happen. That’s what I’ve consistently seen for myself and clients that I’ve worked with, of course, it’s the same thing.
If you want to learn more about this, join us for our Money Shadows webinar call on Wednesday, March 15th at 4:30 PM Eastern.
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