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What Is Your Strong WHY?
I have found that without a strong WHY, that things don’t really usually change for me or for other people that I try to support. There needs to be a sufficiently strong WHY for a transformation, in order for it to happen. Here’s the way to navigate getting your WHY strong enough so that you can allow success to happen through you.
First thing is, you can try to manufacture a WHY for something you think you want and try to get all fired up but “is that going to create a strong enough why?,” and my answer to that is: Absolutely not!
It’s possible somebody, somewhere, sometime can manufacture that sort of thing where they just kind of make up an idea what they want to do and they get all fired up about it and they are able to use their will to make it happen, but usually, that’s always going to fall short and flat, and it’s not the way we really want to operate primarily.
So, what I would ask you to do is, for anything that’s really important to you like doing your healing work and succeeding, financially with it is to take a look at “why is this so important to you?” and how deep is your WHY?
If your why is not strong enough, it’s never going to really happen. Because you keep saying that your WHY is really strong for something else, you have a competing motivator. So, say well, you know I really need my job though and you know I need that money I knew that security I can’t go into debt and I can’t have this, I can’t have that.
And so, your WHY to not change is so strong there is no way you’re going to be able to go that far down the pathway of being a healer and being really successful at it.
So, there’s no way, there’s no strength to the why, oh I’d like to be a healer, I’d like to succeed, I’d like to have clients, I’d like to make money, that doesn’t get it you know, so you have to really tune in an authentic way into your guidance, into what we call your longing.
There’s a longing within you to serve people, to help people with your healing gifts. Even if you don’t believe you have them right now, there’s a longing to help people of that sort of way within you or you wouldn’t be still on this email list, I’m sure, and listening to this or listening to this blog. So, you have a longing that’s with there and so you want to tune into that longing and see why is it so important. So why is this longing so important to me? Where all my yeses to the longing?
You want to keep focusing on that until the longing is so strong that it feels like there’s absolutely no, there’s nothing that is stronger than that why. In other words, all the reasons are all the stories about why you would want something else begin to fade, they’re not as they’re not there do you maybe around still but they’re completely secondary are nothing compared to the strength of your why or what you want.
Look Deeper Into Your Why
So, you want to deepen in your why you want in the way to do that, again, tune in to your longing. Look at all the reasons why genuinely, you want to see this come into fruition, why you want to be a great healer, why you want to have clients, why you want to be able to financially be able to do it part-time or full-time or whatever might be the case. So, you get to strengthen that why, write down the reasons, if that helps you, get really clear about specifically why it’s important to you, what it could do for your life, emotionally how you would feel, and what it would bring to your life – the freedom it might bring to your life in other ways.
When you get that strong enough, you can even look at your fears and turn those into yeses too as to like – what if I’m afraid of what people might say about me?
Well, what if I actually stepped into this and people and instead of living in fear, I actually was confident and it doesn’t matter what people thought and the people that I thought might reject me actually embrace me.
“How about that?” turning that into a yes. You gobble up all the supposed nos, a lie in the few years and they’re competing you know motivation to stay where you are and you get everything turned on.
So, of course, it’s got to be something genuine, you try to talk yourself into anything. You want to get a strong enough WHY for the thing you see, you know that you know, you just need a stronger signal to be able to succeed. That makes sense? Good!
So, that’s my basic tips and building that up. Yes, you can do vision boards to commit to it, you can visualize, you can do all those things and you have to really, really, feel it emotionally.
Take these things into consideration to build your why.
Take Your Why To The Next Level
Just as a quick note, we do have an Energy Scan Training Live Training coming up. It’s a class. So if you’re interested in and want to dive in to learn energy scanning and become successful. If the why is there and the strength is building, and you want your why to get stronger and stronger, that it will definitely help you with the skills and be able to succeed.
So, like we’ve done for a lot of people that are getting started and want to take their skills further and their success further. That’s enough on that. You can click on the link to go check that out. If you join me now, go ahead and we’ll do a prayer on this. You can tune in at marker [08:39].